It's Cheaper to date her

Exactly when did dating become a cheaper substitute for prostitution!

I recently decided to re-enter the dating field!
Which really meant I decided to actually follow through on my promise that,
“Sure, count on it; I’ll give you a call!”

Now I may be closer to one end of the curve than the other, so I checked with my dictionary to make sure my terminology was up to date.

Dating ...
'An engagement to go out socially with another person, often out of romantic interest:
One's companion on such an outing. "

Key words Engagement, out and socially!
I checked the local listing and saw there was an active night life in New York ,and even Brooklyn was extremely well stocked with options. I chose men my age or older. They I assumed would have a cultural affinity with the term, and a feint memory with the experience! Fairly decent upright men, no criminal records, here.
Working men,
Yes they could have afforded it
Ambitious,
I never thought I’d consider that a fault!
Well read...
Shouldn’t that make someone more open minded?
I made it clear I was looking to date, that I was available
They came fort,
I just never expected that negotiating what constituted a date, would be a deal breaker!
Again the dictionary definition

Dating ...
"An engagement to go out socially with another person, often out of romantic interest;
One's companion on such an outing. "

Now just in case you get the wrong idea, I like being pursued. I enjoy the man taking the lead, I know my value Strength and draw, I don’t need you in my face 24hrs a day, I can tell the weeds from the weed heads! I’ll wait for the call...
and I got them, every day, first thing in the morning last thing at night. Truth is I lead a very full, busy life! However I believe that people, and relationships we form are important, so I give my personal contacts at minimum the same level of respect I do my business contacts, 24-48hr call backs!
And I got it, they were sincere …
As they could be, they sincerely felt that was the best effort they needed to put out to hold a woman as their own! To have companionship and a regular sexual partner, they need only find a woman who “fit into their schedules’

Sisters what the hell type of monsters have you created!

I have heard complaint about the lack of ‘good men” so I started asking around and reading some of the blogs by women on dating!

Yes I blame women, if you did not accept the shit; men would pull their game up! Time was when a man did not have the time to court, he’d hire a hooker to service his needs. Now to hear the brothers tell it…

“It’s cheaper to date her!”

Say what you may, ladies of the night understand the value of what they are putting on the table (or any other place they choose, but variety will cost you!) They make sure their transportation back and front, sorry I mean forth is covered, their drinks are paid for( from a glass of course), and accommodations are covered! Services included (guaranteed with a smile) …
So what’s the going rate today.
at least a couple hundreds, and don't let her be intelligent, sophisticated and well read! We're speaking a brother shelling out upwards of 400 bucks
Don't ask I have friends in all places!

Now the date
“Baby it’s o.k., I’ll meet you there,” “What’s the bill, here’s half, or it’s ok, let me cover it!”, “since you paid the cab to your place I’ll cover my ride home!” services rendered...
“How dare you I ain’t no whore”

O.k., there is a commitment then between you guys
No… We’re just friends with benefits

And exactly whose benefit will that be…
“It’s Cheaper to Date her”

By the second month forget the date, It's "Baby on your way over, why not pick up some take out?”
Or “Hi honey what you doin’, I'm just through hanging with my boys!’ “You want me pick up Chinese and come over..after, I'm done here!”

AND WHY ARE YOU ACCEPTING THIS!
I’m an independent woman!

AND WHY ARE YOU ACCEPTING THIS!
I have to concentrate on my career!

AND WHY ARE YOU ACCEPTING THIS!
With all I have to do I don’t have time for a relationship

AND WHY ARE YOU ACCEPTING THIS!
I don’t need a man, I got my TOYS!

AND WHY ARE YOU ACCEPTING THIS!
He isn’t my man… he’s just a friend!

AND WHY ARE YOU ACCEPTING THIS!
I’m a lady not a whore!

Then check yourselves!
‘Cause the brothers think

It’s cheaper to date her!